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This paper was written for a class at HBU as a brief overview of the Hebrew Bible. View as .PDF
As a kid I never wanted to be on a work schedule and found that I could earn more money if I mowed lawns, painted houses or project work. After failing second semester Calculus in Baylor’s Engineering School I changed my major to business and graduated from Baylor University with a double major in Entrepreneurial Management and Finance. In my heart I knew I wanted to be an entrepreneur, but had no idea at the time where to start. I recognized I needed experience and got a job like most of my friends. My job was in sales and I viewed it as a treasure hunt. My boss, Robin Hood,(yes that is his real name) taught me the lesson “where there is chaos, there is opportunity” and I explored the globe creating opportunities for my company by bringing order to chaos through the dependable supply of quality products to others. During my journey I came across many opportunities that were not a fit for my company and was tempted to step out on my own to capitalize on these opportunities. However, I was married, had a mortgage, 3 children and bills to pay. This is the scenario that plays out in so many talented people that have great potential and are suppressed by the fear of failure and the seduction of financial security. It was not until I left my job to test a new career and found myself without a job a year later that I thought I had the courage to be an entrepreneur. I spent 6 months looking for a manufacturing company to buy and after exploring several companies and failing to close on two offers, I settled for a job to turn around another company with an option to purchase the business. I thought of myself as an entrepreneur. I developed the vision, mission, core values and set off to re-build this 70 year old injection molding company. After 10 years of building this company and my purchase option expired, my dream ended when I was notified that this now successful company would not be sold as agreed.
Becoming an Entrepreneur
The future scenario was unacceptable and I had to decide how I would provide for my family. This was the end of the line and the door of ownership had closed for me. I was able to find a company in the same town that was much smaller and much less mature in regard to systems, procedures and capabilities. I did not want to start over, but had no choice. The oldest of my 3 children was a senior in high school with plans to attend Auburn University. My other two children were in private school and not far behind attending college. This was not the time of life I would have planned to take every liquid asset that I had including my college savings, put them at risk to purchase a small business and sign a bank note with unlimited personal liability to pay back the debts. This is when I realized I really had never been an entrepreneur. I had been entrepreneurial, but until you put everything you own at risk including your kids college funds months before leaving for college and sign up for unlimited personal guarantees (or something like this) you have not taken the leap of a true entrepreneur.
Now I was on my own with an office manager, a small group of employees, an old building and a bunch of machines I did not personally know how to operate. I had to make a payroll each week and monthly had to make a real estate, business bank loan and all the material and utility bills. I recall receiving one of our first receivables from our largest customer at the time and calling them to thank them. They had no idea how much that check meant to me. Now as we approach our 5 year anniversary we have again put a vision, mission, core values in place, grown to nearly 100 teammates, replaced and added equipment that I still do not know how to personally operate, have solid systems and procedures, and have been able to put away some savings for a rainy day. We are making plans to go “All In” again and put much of our savings into a new building and sign another round of unlimited personal guarantees. I told my dad that I wanted to retire at 50. He has kidded me that I am working more hours now than at any time in my career, but I remind him that I did retire. I retired from working for someone else and thoroughly enjoy the risks and rewards that come from being an entrepreneur. I enjoy my time while on vacation, but equally enjoy my time working with the next generation of young men and women to build a business and future for their families. Not everyone is cut out to be an entrepreneur. For those that are I would offer a few lessons learned.
I think true entrepreneurs are hard-wired and gifted by God to dream, plan, take action and successfully execute on the business vision that is in their heart. I believe there is a graduated “entrepreneur scale” that we fall on that spans from entrepreneurial to entrepreneur, but a point along that scale that requires a leap. A leap that requires faith and is when the entrepreneur is born.
In the past couple months I experienced an awesome feeling that swelled my heart with joy and caught me completely off guard. These experiences blessed me immensely with a picture of God’s feelings toward those who know Him and have trusted in Him. My friend hosts a celebration of the Feast of Tabernacles and it is no small celebration. A few hundred guests come to camp under the Texas stars during the God-ordained time of the full moon each fall to celebrate God’s redemption plan for man with worship and great fellowship. It happens that many people who I have invested significant time and shared my favorite life experiences and memories come from around the country with their families for this weekend. Most had arrived on Friday and I drove in from Houston to join them Saturday morning not really knowing who was coming. As I came to the front porch, there gathered was a 15-20 men and women that I had come to share deep friendship at different times and different eras of my life. All gathered together in this one place at this one time. My heart immediately filled with great joy and overflowed with love that I have for these friends. These are “All My People”, I thought, the people that I have shared many fun adventures and shared difficulties that we all experience in our life journey. Some of these friendships had been knit together over the years and some have yet to know each other, but “All My People” whom I love were there. As I reflected on that day I know that is how God must feel when we come together to worship Him and will greet us as we join Him in eternity. God’s heart will be filled with joy and overflowing with love that all “My People” are here with me.
My second experience was this November weekend in 2018 when my college roommate invited me to come to our 30th year reunion at Baylor Homecoming. I am still struggling to get my mind around a 30 year college reunion. I can’t be this old? Julie and I attended a couple events where we walked in to a room, not knowing who would attend and if we would know anyone. Of the 50 or so that were present were “All My People”. The people who forged my best memories at Baylor and though more years have passed since our graduation than the years we had lived when we were last together, it was as if not a day had passed when we were reunited.
I am greatly blessed with many life-long friends. What a great picture and experience He has given me to share with you. Oh how our hearts will be filled with joy and overflowing with the love He has given us when we reunite again with God and “All My People”.

I started this blog many years ago with the goal to share ideas and experiences of leading your family and examples of things we did to create memories. At the time all our kids were young and pretty much always available for an adventure. As they have grown, left home, and moved to different states and towns the time we have to make memories and shape their life is limited. My son Ben is currently a sophomore at Colorado State University. We were talking the other day and he said he wanted to hike Long’s Peak in Estes Park. I have been to Estes Park many times and never hiked Long’s Peak. So, when he said he wanted to hike Long’s I immediately asked if that was an invitation and began to plan a trip. Long’s Peak is 14,259′. You start the hike at 3:00 a.m. at 9,500′ and climb 5,000′ in 7.5 miles to the top.
The opportunities to share adventures and create memories will continue to diminish as their schedules and responsibilities grow. When you get an opportunity jump on it and make it happen. We all have lots of responsibilities, conflicts and excuses that can keep us from sharing these experiences. Make it a priority, seize the moment and make a positive memory every chance you get.
p.s. Do Long’s Peak while you are young. The 7.5 mile hike down the boulders is a killer.